#Remember writing prompt

I’ll be good she said,
With her ass all red,
She wanted to be used,
But must be a lady instead,
She would remember,
As she begged for more,
Her skin glowed like an ember,
And she moaned like a whore,
Good girl I whispered,
Pressing fingers inside,
She shook and came,
I was satisfied.

Best wishes -SirHanz

Spanx

Bite your lip, this is going to sting.

Hand rests. Anticipation…

Skin, smothe as silk..

Beneath softest touch..

Curve and valley…

What beauty..

Betwixt my knees..

Wait no longer..

I am come…

Desires fulfilled..

With calloused hand..

Gentle smile..

Whispered words..

Ignite passion..

And wanton lust..

The hand falls..

Shocking sting….

Hips held steady..

Grind apon my knee..

Slow breath..

Again the flame..

Back arched..

Eyes like embers..

Burning with need..

A pale rose..

Dampens my thigh..

Exploring velvet petals..

All it takes is a touch..

And the words..

You are mine..

Best wishes -SirHanz

Punishment.

What do you do with a submissive that will not listen.. or says something inappropriate.. or fails to complete a task…

You guessed it. It’s time for the dom to step in and correct the behavior. This can take many forms depending on the submissive and what they enjoy and dislike. Intensity is also a factor. Take this scenario… a sub that enjoys getting spanked misbehaves. Do you spank them? Most would think no, use a different punishment. But the devious dom (me) would spank them. At first they enjoyed it.. then a little less.. now they are openly weeping and pleading.. then they are promising never to do it again. A second example.. the sub realy likes toys. Tie them up and tie a toy pressed hard against them. Turn it on and leave the room. Check in on them in an hour and see of they are sorry yet. Or still able to form coherent thought. Using this method of turning something the submissive enjoys into a punishment avoids the paradox of punishing a submissive. I refer to the idea that you cant punish a sub that enjoys the punishment.

This is something doms with a massocist sub especially have to deal with. How do you punish if they enjoy the pain? Simple.. dont give it to them. Ignore them. This is by far one of the most cruel things a dom can do to a sub. Or make them write an apology to themselves for being so disobedient and causing themselves suffering. (This can work wonders)

Punishments can range over a widespread spectrum of things from writing…

To spanking..

To being tight laced into a corset for a set period of time.

To corner time..

To sexual acts that the submissive doesn’t like or are painful.

To pubic humiliation…

Part of the dread that a submissive feels when they are told they are going to be punished is the anticipation and not knowing what the dom will do.

Delaying punishment is another technique that works well. Telling the submissive that they will be punished and showing your displeasure but not telling them when leaves them to stew on the feelings of failure and disappointment. This can be worse than the actual punishment. Left for long enough the punishment may become a relief from the feelings of guilt. A just punishment helps the submissive to let go of guilt and move forward without all the lingering feelings you find in a more vanilla relationship.

Now let’s talk about a different aspect of punishment. What is the difference between punishment and play. Punishment is designed to modify a bad behavior. Play may use similar elements and sometimes be just as intense, but play is designed to stimulate and increase the feelings of submission in the sub. A lot of it is the headspace the dom guides the submissive into.

After the punishment it is important to talk to the submissive. Explain what they did wrong and how their actions effect your dynamic, themselves, and their dom. Talking after punishment is an essential part of the process. It shows that you care and reinforces the lesson.

Aftercare is particularly important after punishment. Often the worst part of any punishment for a submissive is the feeling of failure and disappointment. It is important that the submissive is not left to spiral down and is made to feel cared about even after makeing a mistake.

Thanks for reading and I hope this helps someone out there.

Best wishes -SirHanz

Hunting a minx

Laughing fills the air with silver echoes..

The hunter waits… concealed by coat and hat… keen eyes watch from afar…

He has time..

A flash of movement.. pale white wrapped tight in leather and silk, then she is gone…

The scent lingers.. he has her trail.

Smooth and slow.. he must not alarm his pray..

The tracks are faint.. he kneels.. fingertips trace the outline..

Heels… six inches…

Ears perk.. the rustle of satin from ahead.. he is close..

Vanilla and amber fill the air..

He moves quickly now.. turning his feet to let his steps make no sound.. hand closing on the hilt..

Soon.. he will have her..

She stops, head lifting.. chest riseing and falling.. eyes widen.. a hunter… close..

Her eyes narrow.. teeth flash in a grin..

The muscles of his legs quiver with tension… he sees her now…

Closer…

DANGER! She bolts.. supple legs pound the earth.. frantic.. laughing..

Blood rushes…the hunter moves..

The infinite moment unfolds.. time slows.. the hunter leaps.. gravity has forgotten him..

The seconds strech..

The corner of her vision blurs.. he is close! RUN! RUN FASTER! The air burns..

An eternity between heartbeats…

A lion in flight.. the hunter roars with anticipation…Weapon unsheathed he tackles his pray.

SMACK!

Pinning her with his knee he twists her arm behind her back.. the minx squeals in mock protest..

Silk rips.. she is exposed..

SMACK! smack, smack, smack… her ass burns as he leans low.. pressing her hard into the carpet.

She moans… her lips quivering..

His voice is the whisper of distant thunder….

“Minx.. you are about to have a vary.. vary… bad day…. and I will enjoy it immensely”

She shudders…. “yes sir”

Kink 106

I am going to combine the spanking kink from my list with the whips and floggers kink in this edition of the kinklist exploitation. They are not the same but similar enough to be combined into one good old fashioned ass whoopin post.

Let’s start with spanking.


A gentle hand apon a womans ass.. a sharp intake of breath as she braces herself.. then a jerk or shudder as the hand falls. What’s not to like?

The submissive is both disciplined and cared for through the act of spanking. It can be sensual or painful or both at the same time. It can be done in the context of bdsm with restraints and tools or in the spur of the moment when out shopping due to bad behavior. It can be a sensual expression of love and affection or show the submissive that you care enough to correct them. Context is everything with spanking. Setting the mood for a good sensual playtime or ordering them over your knee.. two vary different experiences with the same action at the core. Spanking usually only leaves the submissive a little sore, but it can be quite painful with a paddle and leave serious bruising.

The position of the submissive also effects what they feel. When the glutes are relaxed, less painful as they absorb more impact. When the glutes are tight, more painful as the impact is transmitted into the mussle.

There can also be therapeutic reasons to spank.

Whips, floggers, and crops on the other hand…

These can create a wide variety of sensation. From the pure impact of a soft heavy flogger, to the sting of the crop, to the burning agony of the whip. These you need a little education to use safely. A mistake with a whip can do serious damage that will scar instead of leaving a welt. Floggers (depending on the weight) could bruse internal organs. Learn where to strike, how hard for the desired effect, and areas to avoid.

For a sadist with a massocist partner, whips often surve the same purpose as spanking for a non masochist. But for a non masochist submissive they are usually reserved for punishment. (Or if I just feel the urge to use them) floggers can be used as one would use a whip or as a sensual instrument depending upon design. Some are made to inflict pain, some to be sensual, or some that can be used for ether one depending on the skill of the user.
Stay tuned for the next installment of the kink list.

Best wishes -SirHanz