A quick thank you

Thank you to all the wonderful people who for some strange reason enjoy my blog.

So to reward you for your diligence in reading all my word salad and random writing I give you all this.

I see you…

Watching me…

Hiding your gaze when I turn,

Suddenly engrossed in your phone,

I’ll pretend I didn’t see,

Let you have your guilty pleasure,

I’ll let you fantasize and dream,

As you sip your coffee all alone…

Time will pass as we play our little game,

You looking with hunger in your eyes,

And I pretending..

Your not the most interesting thing in the room,

Every movement tells me more,

The way your stare lingers..

Reflected in the glass,

As you look at my ass,

I pick up my pastry,

And head for the door,

Waiting just outside,

For a little while more,

When you appear from within,

I boldly block your way,

I saw your heated gaze,

And would ask that you stay,

You may escape if you wish,

But come with me..

And you will see..

All that you imagined.

Best wishes -SirHanz

4 years

Holy crap… has it been that long? I am usually not good at remembering dates but there are a few I remember. My birthday (usually), the week that we often get our first cool weather after the brutal summer. And the last time I had sex.. yup… 4 years ago tomorrow. Its amazing how time just seems to slip by. There were times when 4 days without sex seemed like way too long.. it’s not the longest I have gone without.. after (she who shall not be named) I pretty much retreated from the world for about 6 years and was celibate through that time. Though it was not by choice, frankly at that point in my life I was fairly broken emotionally and I knew it. I knew I couldn’t deal with the risk of being hurt any more so I hid. I barely saw my family, and pretty much my only contact with people was work and my brother. It took me a long time to come back from that.. but eventually I did. At least this time i came out of the relationship more or less intact though with a few extra scars.

Hmm… was just thinking that Instead of mourning and bemoaning my lack of intemicy tomorrow… maybe I will buy a cake. With four candles that I can laughingly blow out and wish there will not be a fifth. Have a little party and appreciate how sweet it will be when I once again get to experience that joy and passion.

Best wishes -sirhanz

Open

In the Forrest,

Or apon the shore,

Far from the clamor,

The pressure,

Constant,

Unrelenting,

I am free,

To open myself to the world…

I put away my mask,

Close my eyes,

And only feel me..

The breeze kisses,

My dusty skin,

In the morning glow,

By the waters edge…

As all the light,

Held caged for too long,

Spills out,

Around my jagged edges,

A hidden offering,

Of serenity,

buried,

Safe,

From the blind,

Who would unknowing,

And without understanding,

Put out my light.

Best wishes -SirHanz

Rest

Come hither,

Rest your weary soul,

In my warm embrace..

I know you are tired,

So many days,

Lost from the light,

Panicked,

Hurting,

Lonely,

Fighting to not give in,

To the darkness within..

Lay yourself apon me,

And be loved,

Not in spite of your flaws,

But because of them..

Take a deep breath,

Fill your mind,

With my words,

Feel them wash away,

Suffering,

Like cool water,

Caressing sunburnt skin…

You are here,

Appreciated and cared for,

Free to be happy,

Unbound and valued,

Cherished…

Close your eyes,

Lay down your head,

And listen,

To the steady,

Beating song,

A rush of life,

Illuminating,

Your broken beauty..

For only through the cracks,

And between shattered pieces,

May the light shine through.

Best wishes -SirHanz

A quick note.

Just wanted to let my readers know the lack of content the last couple of days has not been by choice. I landed a contract for some work but it had to be done in 2 days so 22hours over two days of up and down a ladder and now I can finally get back to writing. I took monday off to rest sore muscles and recoup some sleep. But now I am back. And ready to bring the heat with more delicious words and informative delicacies. Glad to be back, it was a grueling few days at the end of a hot week.

Best wishes -SirHanz

Degradation

Today I wanted to talk a bit about degradation. In my experience there are two kinds of degrading, positive and negative. Positive degradation you say? What’s that? Well… the classic example I always use is this.

Think about the difference in how you feel if your dominant calls you a “whore, or dirty slut.” VS. If they call you “My gorgeous whore, or my wonderfully dirty slut.” Big difference huh? There is no right or wrong here. Just two vary different aspects. Some people enjoy the feelings they get from the negative, some the positive, and some like nether or both. But the important thing is to know these little nuances and be aware of what it is you enjoy or dont.

Understanding the impact your words have on your submissive is important. And not just that they have an impact, you have to look deeper. And that’s the wonderful thing about a d/s dynamic.. a good dominant WANTS to see those deeper layers. Understanding the psychology behind your actions and your submissives responses gives you more control. The dominant has more control which they enjoy and the submissive enjoys the experience more because the dom understands their reactions better. It benefits both. But I digress…

Some form of open communication is essential to understanding how your words affect your submissive. You can guess by there expressions or physical reactions but you will never be completely shure unless you can talk about it. Usually things are a little more complex that just she gets wet when you call her a whore… what else is she feeling in that moment? Shame? Disappointment? Anger? Sadness? Rebellious? Aroused? Needy? Desired? Often the submissive has not really explored or thought deeply on what they are feeling. They just enjoy it and leave it at that. And that may be just fine for some, but if you crave that deeper level of control… prompt them to think about it. Experiment with different words and the feelings they evoke. And learn to use those words like a surgeon to guide your submissive to exactly the headspace you want them in.

And remember… its supposed to be fun. 😁

Best wishes -SirHanz

A thousand suns

Unstoppable,

Fire crackleing within,

Step closer you can feel the heat,

Radiating from my skin…

We are made from stars,

And my heart burns,

With the flame,

Of a thousand suns…

The dying embers,

That rest with the marrow,

Of my bones,

Resonate,

Calling out,

To your molen core…

Feeding the depth,

Of your song,

A harmonious melody,

Plucked from the void,

Intertwining two souls,

In bodys built from ashes,

Of nuclear annihilation…

Passion unleashd,

Two parts,

Completing the circle,

And finding peace,

In the eye of chaos,

All else fadeing,

Till only our stardust remains.

Best wishes-SirHanz

The softest hand

In times of pain and sadness,

I am here,

Warmth against the chill,

Of sadness and depression,

The light of hope,

Knee deep in the flood,

Of words and struggle,

Expecting nothing,

Offering everything,

Calloused hands,

A cradle for tears,

When your spirit is weak,

And flickering,

A mirror of truth,

Reflecting and multiplying,

Your light,

That you may see,

The beauty,

Of your flame,

Dancing,

Ever changeing,

Consuming the past,

To become the future,

Perfectly you,

Beloved,

As you are.

Best wishes-SirHanz

Stumped

The root of the problem,

As I see it,

Is the stiffness,

Of your position…

Wood you not find accord?

And branch out,

From stubbornness?

Is this just a stump speach?

Your situation is untenable,

If you will not give way,

I must uproot you,

I tried to be reasonable,

But any other course,

Wood leave me,

Stumped.


Score… stump 0. Hanz 1.